Come on guys – you already know the drill when it comes to dating. You need to make sure that you have a shower, clean up your pad, do your hair and de-clog the plug hole from your body hair. However, how come there are still so many of you getting it wrong? Are you missing vital signs when it comes to dating? Perhaps you are just struggling with the whole dating scene? Luckily, these dating guidelines for single guys should point you in the right direction.
One of the most important guidelines is to make sure that you ask her out the once, and just the once. Repeated invitations for dates are going to make you look two things – desperate and needy. Your groin might rule over your brain right now, but remember to think with your head from time to time. Don’t get obsessive and weird on her – let her come to you in her own time. Desperation is not sexy.
She will, of course, try to play hard to get, which means that you most definitely should not give up at the first hurdle, but at the same time, you should probably learn that fine line between playing it right and getting it very, very wrong.
You should be a caring and passionate lover. This doesn’t just mean in the bed; this means all the time. Hold her hand, kiss her in public, and make her feel just as good as she makes you feel. It’s OK to ask questions to make sure you get things right. In fact, she will love your enthusiasm to learn. If you feel that you aren’t offering her your full potential as a lover, it’s probably wise to check out some hints and tips – the internet is great for this!
As much as you might be hitting the age where you really want to settle down and have kids, you shouldn’t settle for a girl that you won’t entirely be happy with in the long term. If she’s questionable for you, it’s not enough. If you can see right from the word go that she is not pretty enough, curvy enough, funny enough or likes Star Wars enough, it’s not going to work; especially if these are things that you are passionate about. What we are trying to say is – never settle for less than what you want.
A few final pointers that it is well worth taking into account is the fact that you should never settle for unsociable behavior regardless of how long it took you to get this date. If she is rude, not appreciative or just aggravates you in public, there is a good chance that you will be fighting later. Also, you should avoid becoming too predictable. No girls like a guy that they can predict. Try to switch things up from time to time.